Nerd humor is the best humor.
Ummm..try not giving a flying fuck? Works for me. What does it matter what some douche bag says about you being a woman geek? Jerks on the internet are just something the learn to ignore. Just because you can’t see them they think they can be big badasses and say things they wouldn’t never say in person. But as with everything else in life it only matters what you think about you.